Sunday, January 12, 2014

BRIDAL SHOWER


i was invited to attend a BRIDAL SHOWER
the theme
something for the home
my assignment
the dining room
luckily,
i was parntered with my mother
she had a dining room
i do not
she set an elegant table with limoge china
i am a work in progress
with lovely china inherited from my mother in law

next,
bring a favorite recipe
what?
a recipe?
a recipe that works?
one that tastes good?

thankfully chelle came through
with RED velvet cake

finally,
advice for the bride...
words of wisdom
i believe it is three strikes
and you are out
i certainly had three strikes,
but this isn't baseball

dad and noah
chauffeured
mom and me
to saratoga springs
 intrinsic beauty
surrounded me...
a blanket of ice and snow
blended in with the white of the sky
 the club house was decorated
with classic romance

as always,
it was a thrill to reconnect
with friends and cousins
 we conversed
and played games
"you will have 15 children
live in a tent
work at 7 11
in cedar city, utah"

"i am sure that there was jello in 1930..."

savored delicious food
and refreshment

then came the glorious gifts
and words of wisdom
i presented Xan
"a recipe...
mmm...i don't cook
and when i do
it is a disaster
the next best thing...
 vanilla cinnamon brûlée candle
it sounds gourmet
smells like the real thing
and when someone comes to call
'your home smells amazing
what are you making'
just wave your hand
'oh it's nothing' "

my advice
"learn to cook
the one thing that has been a constant
in my 15 years of marriage
is
'a homecooked meal makes me feel loved'
from hubby
and
decide day one
the kind of habits you want in your home on a daily basis
family prayer
dinner at the table
who will pay the bills
and maintain the car"
and then i turned it over
to emily post
my mother.
her finesse and class
left listeners
better for having attended

our gift
the RED YOU ARE 
SPECIAL PLATE
there was a bit of entertainment
and help from the men
and all of us left
with the bride's favorite,
a bottle of coke

"it's the real thing"
just like
their love story.
best wishes
to xan and thomas



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